Tuesday, July 15, 2008

this what it tells abt me ?

You Are Very Happy
Your life is totally together, and you enjoy every day.
And you don't need a quiz to tell you that!
You know how to find pleasure in the little things...
And even when life isn't so great, you have a good sense of perspective.

You Have Many Alpha Tendencies
You're not a total alpha female, but you certainly know how to - and like to - get your way.
You're forceful without being intimidating. You're confident without being vain. A perfect mix.

You Have a Melancholic Temperament
Introspective and reflective, you think about everything and anything.
You are a soft-hearted daydreamer. You long for your ideal life.
You love silence and solitude. Everyday life is usually too chaotic for you.

Given enough time alone, it's easy for you to find inner peace.
You tend to be spiritual, having found your own meaning of life.
Wise and patient, you can help people through difficult times.

At your worst, you brood and sulk. Your negative thoughts can trap you.
You are reserved and withdrawn. This makes it hard to connect to others.
You tend to over think small things, making decisions difficult.

You've Changed 36% in 10 Years
Ah, the past! You may not remember it well - because you're still living in it.
While you've changed some, you may want to update your wardrobe, music collection and circle of friends.

You Are 83% Tortured Genius
You totally fit the profile of a tortured genius. You're uniquely brilliant - and completely misunderstood.
Not like you really want anyone to understand you anyway. You're pretty happy being an island.

Your Birthdate: February 23
People wouldn't take you for a passionate person - and that's where they'd be wrong.
You can develop deep emotions quickly, and you're the type most likely to move in with someone after a few dates.

Number of True Loves You'll Have: 3

Number of Times You'll Have Your Heart Broken: 1

You are most compatible with people born on the 5th, 14th, and 23rd of the month.

What Your Handwriting Says About You
You are a fairly energetic person. You know how do pace yourself, and you deal well with stress.

You are somewhat outgoing, but you're not a natural extrovert. You think first before you act. You tend to be independent, rational, and logical.

You are balanced and grounded. You know how to get along well with others.

You need a lot of space in your life, and it's easy for you to feel stifled. You avoid commitment and responsibility whenever you can.

You are somewhat traditional, but you are also open to change. You listen to your head and your heart.

You are a decent communicator. You eventually get your point across, but sometimes you leave things a bit ambiguous.

You Are Pretty Happy Being Single
You have a full, fun life. And you definitely don't need love to be content.
Of course, being single can get you down a little. Especially when you've been single for a while.
But you know how to be patient and wait for the right person. You're life is too good to settle for anything!

You Are Ani Difranco!
Honest, real, and well liked.
You're not limited by any boundaries.
"And you can call me crazy
But I think you're as lazy as white paint on the wall"

You Are Boyish Sexy
You're the kind of girl who gets along with all the boys
Whether it's holding your own in a game of touch football...
Or kicking some major butt while playing Xbox.
You hang with the guys easily, while still keeping your girly sexiness.

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

my way

lagu ni dah ada b4 aku wujud di dunia ni. lagu lama tapi best sgt. senikata lagu ni mmg best

(P. Anka, J. Revaux, G. Thibault, C. Frankois) [Recorded December 30, 1968, Hollywod]

And now, the end is here
And so I face the final curtain
My friend, I'll say it clear
I'll state my case, of which I'm certain
I've lived a life that's full
I traveled each and ev'ry highway
And more, much more than this, I did it my way

Regrets, I've had a few
But then again, too few to mention
I did what I had to do and saw it through without exemption
I planned each charted course, each careful step along the byway
And more, much more than this, I did it my way

Yes, there were times, I'm sure you knew
When I bit off more than I could chew
But through it all, when there was doubt
I ate it up and spit it out
I faced it all and I stood tall and did it my way

I've loved, I've laughed and cried
I've had my fill, my share of losing
And now, as tears subside, I find it all so amusing
To think I did all that
And may I say, not in a shy way,
"Oh, no, oh, no, not me, I did it my way"

For what is a man, what has he got?
If not himself, then he has naught
To say the things he truly feels and not the words of one who kneels
The record shows I took the blows and did it my way!

Yes, it was my way

apa pendapat anda

apa anda akan buat jika org komen yg anda :

1. so detail dalam satu2 pekerjaan hingga lost? (walhal kerana detail tu la kerja anda berjalan ikut platform yg betul, walaupun kadang2 terkucil miss the datelines. tapi bukanlah melibatkan masalah besar, just a minor issue)
2. straight to the point? (sebenarnya point tu lah yg factual tapi anda jadi unpopular kerana menyatakan kebenaran)
3. suka marah2 (walhal yg anda marah2 tu pasal org tak ikut arahan dgn betul)

pada penilaian dan pendapat aku :
1. detail sgt pun org tak appreciate especially utk mereka yg mementingkan quantity dr quality. yg penting bos senyap. tengok pada jenis pekerjaan jugalah. kena pandai2 menggunakannya.
2. tak salah straight to the point. cumanya budaya org kita (terutamanya melayu la) tak suka terima teguran = tak dapat terima hakikat kelemahan diri diperkatakan org. kena sampaikan teguran dgn cara yg paling lemah lembut. kena jaga hati takut terasa. jadinya utk menyesuaikan dgn keadaan semasa ni, eloklah kita berhemah sebelum membuka mulut. i cant stand this actually. real pretending
3. boleh aje nak marah2 atas kebodohan org lain coz pasal depa lah menyebabkan hidup/kerja kita susah atau tergendala tapi mcm biasalah org tak pandang pun punca buat kita marah2. yg depa nampak kita cepat hangin. itu 1st visual impression. apa2 pun EQ kena ada utk mengelakkan org kata kita sewel semacam.

apa2pun, memang sifat manusia mementingkan kepentingan peribadi (namun tidak dinafikan masih ada lagi org yg suci luhur). menidakkan mana yg betul dan membenarkan apa yg tidak betul. aku bukan ahli sejarah atau sasterawan atau budayawan. bg aku dlm era globalisasi ni kita kena suai padankan dgn cabaran hidup zaman ini. mana yg boleh diamalkan, amal. mana yg macam kureng dan tak berapa nak boleh pakai, tinggalkan aje. biarlah ia menjadi warisan. sekurangnya generasi akan dapat melihat betapa tamadun kita berubah mengikut masa. berubah ke arah kebaikanlah. selagi tidak menyalahi ajaran agama islam. hidup kita sepatutnya berpaksikan ajaran agama (yg bukan ditafsirkan ikut kepentingan sendiri, nowadays telah ada golongan yg mentafsir hadis dan quran ikut kepala sendiri). kita tidak boleh terikat pd stigma adab/pemikiran lama yg akhirnya tak membawa kita ke mana-mana.